Refinement, intellect, wit, fun-loving, healthy,good people skills, loves connecting - body, mind, spirit...all shared attributes of a healthy balanced relationship. I am an ENFJ on the Myers Briggs - check other web sites for info on that. I love music [anything from classical to jazz and the 60s] and live theatre[drama, opera, musicals - have produced 6 shows with Secondary kids - great fun], love escaping to the beach and mountains. I believe a good relationship has connection, chemistry and consideration for the other - emotional intelligence rates high on my preferences with a partner. A little bit of congnitive intelligence doesn't go astray either! I enjoy diversity of interests and would hope that in a partnership we would continue to surprise each other with thoughts and ideas on a wide range of subjects. I am a learner and enjoy discovering new frontiers.