I have a home based business and am currently living in Melbourne seeking to build meaning win/win relationships with people.

Relationships exist only for the exchange of resources. If we are not valued as a person who has something to contribute, there can be no relationship. Our creator values our choices and also seeks to have a relationship with us.

I am not God, nor am I Jesus Christ, just seeking to be a humble follower of his example. He is a true friend to me and understands me like no other.

I am not interested in any form of religion which trys to control people and give them a fear of living in hell forever. The reality is that the sentence of death is upon us all. Hell is a place of destruction, not somewhere to live forever.

The only place we can live forever is the place where there will be no more death or destruction. I do not want to die, I want to live and I want to live more abundantly, just like Jesus said we could. Jesus taught us how we could have a relationship with the creator of the universe. He taught us to call him father. I have chosen to be adopted by God, so that I naturally call him my father.

I do believe however, that it is not good for man to live alone. I am not seeking the perfect woman or someone who thinks exactly as I do. It is good to have friends who do not think as you do, it challenges your thinking.

I am looking for someone who compliments me, not completes me. I am learning to be complete within myself and have discovered the happiness that comes from within.

If Jesus loved me enough to die for me, why can't I love me and extend that love for others he died for also?

I can be deceived the same as anyone else, but I do recognise the 4 cornerstones of success which can also be applied to personal relationships.

If we have a vision we must put time, effort and discipline into making it happen.

My ideal partner will be drawn to me like a magnet. We will be able to communicate our deepest thoughts and have a sense of belonging which will satisfy our sexual needs and keep us faithful to each other and our creator. We will compliment each other and be able to pick our partner up when he or she falls.